Welcome to trying to date the “modern woman.” You are nothing more than a resource to be used. If you’re doing first, second, or even third dates at a restaurant on your dime, I’ve got some bad news for you… You’ve become nothing more than a meal ticket while she tries to find someone better than you. Her wanting to take it slow is another sign that she’s probably not all that attracted to you. For a first date, go for something simple and either free or inexpensive. If she’s only after you to pay for meals, this should give you an idea of her intentions. Someone who legitimately likes you is probably more inclined to spend time walking around a park with you than the kind of woman from the above post.

Men need to drop the assumption that they should be paying for these dates themselves. Feminists wanted equality, so make sure you keep that in mind when the bill arrives.