This almost seems like a normal story for the average guy these days… He is the provider but she’d rather go blow random guys for fun. I feel bad for this guy having just found out he married a disgusting whore, but someone needs to slap the stupid out of him for ever thinking “forgiveness is probably the right path.” Dump her, and do your best to raise your kids. If you haven’t figured it out by now, marrying a modern woman is something you may regret doing the rest of your life.