This one is particularly brutal… This guy spent 5 years dating a woman, who in turn spent that whole time cheating on him with an ex. Not only is that a slap in the face, he went on to marry the cheating whore and lose 28 years of his life being committed to a woman who is nothing more than common street trash. Essentially the woman was out having her “alpha fucks” fun and keeping this poor guy around to buy her meals and gifts. I cannot begin to describe how revolting it is to think about committing to a woman who’s been out riding other dicks before coming back home and sharing my bed. I understand the marriage has surprisingly lasted a long time, but how do we know she even loves him at all? This poor sucker is probably just getting the bare minimum duty sex to keep his wallet open.
One extremely troubling consideration which doesn’t seem to get mentioned in the original post is the timing of these details being sent to the husband. Did the ex simply decide on a whim after 28 years to tell this guy? My immediate assumption is the woman was still out cheating during the marriage and perhaps the ex finally had enough of her or something. The part about her now getting mad whenever the topic comes up shows that she has no respect for the guy or his feelings. She doesn’t care that she’s a cheating whore and just expects the husband to keep paying for her. A scenario such as this requires the full nuclear response of divorcing the whore and going MGTOW.